- Music sets the stage for the celebration. Tomorrow, the bride wants some folk music played as a prelude. The crowd will mix people of central Ontario and Quebec city. She thought that would help people relax about the language difference and set a more casual atmosphere. Sometimes I've played where the bride wants classical music to set an elegant mood. Other times, I get a list of favorite songs, sometimes popular songs, sometimes spiritual songs that creates a more sentimental atmosphere.
- There are never two weddings the same even if the same music is chosen. The effects of the music always has a context dependent on a number of variables. The music itself may be played on different instruments - take Purcell's Trumpet in D+ a favorite bridal processional. The effects of each of these instrumentations will be different: organ and trumpet, organ only, piano and trumpet, piano only, playing a recording, playing on a digital piano . The effects of the music will also be different depending on the choreography of the bridal party: middle aisle presentation, side aisle presentation, single file presentation, couple presentation. Other variables that determine musical effects are size of bridal party, style of dress, speed of music, pacing of music.
- Who selects the music? For the most part, it is the bride who engages me and talks details. Sometimes the groom "leaves it to her" to make all the decisions. Sometimes the couple has chosen the musical selections together. Often, a bride comes not having any idea about what she/they want and are looking for advice. On several occasions, I have had brides who are really clear about what they want and why. I think it's important to take the time to uniquely select music for each wedding as music can accomodate preferences and/or cultural differences and has the ability to set the mood. I get to be a part of two families' celebration. For the most part, weddings are happy occasions and a celebration of two families. I enjoy going to the rehearsal and meeting the "players" and being inside their world for a while.
- Inevitably, I learn new music. And perhaps this is one of the things I enjoy the most. For tomorrow's wedding, the bride has requested to walk into the theme song from Tuck Everlasting. The music is not available in print form, so I've lifted it from You Tube and arranged it for piano and oboe. Now that beautiful tune is in my repertoire.
All the best Emma and Phil - enjoy your day!
Bev
© 2009, Bev Foster
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